Sunday, February 27, 2011

A letter to my brother


Dearest brother,

Congratulations to completing your degree (finally).

Good luck for your job interviews. Here are a couple of notes:

1. Be humble and willing to learn. Remember people don't owe you a job. They give you an opportunity to learn and make a living.

2. Be polite. Interviewers like good manners.

3. Read up about the organization. Briefly read the background from the org website About Us or from wiki. Interviewers like to see fresh grads being interested in the job.

4. Give politically correct answers. Interviewers don't want to know you don't know what you want. They care only whether you have the right attitude, the ability to do the job and whether you will fit into the culture of the organization.

Anyway, be excited about getting a decent job and start earning money at fresh graduate pay. While you build your career and learn survival skills at your work place, your salary will allow you to save for future needs and remember to apportion your spending for self-development expenses such as traveling.

Remember to save because having a job and regular salary may give you a false sense of security and you may think you can spend freely which may cause you to end up in trouble. Just remember the basic rule: Spend less than you earn.

You are now fully responsible for yourself. Use common sense and think. Be accountable for your actions.

One of life challenges is to understand yourself and what you want. Underlying this journey of self-discovery is to understand the relationship of man and money. The second concept to be aware is the relationship of man and material things. You are not what you own although many marketeers will make you think otherwise. Be aware of the messages people are constantly trying to influence you.

As you find your place in this world, you will be confused and may feel lost in midst of living. Take that opportunity to try new things. New skills or experiences which will allow self-expression and engage your five senses and intellectual. Also remember to exercise regularly and eat mindfully. This will help you keep your balance.

Thus I shall leave you with some quotes for your pondering as you begin your lifelong adventure:

"The universal regard for money is the one hopeful fact in our civilization. Money is the most important thing in the world. It represents health, strength, honour, generosity and beauty as conspicuously as the want of it represents illness, weakness, disgrace, meanness and ugliness. Not the least of its virtues is that it destroys base people as certainly as it fortifies and dignifies noble people." - George Bernard Shaw

"Most of the luxuries and many of the so-called comforts of life are not only not indispensable, but positive hindrances to the elevation of mankind." - Henry David Thoreu

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Little Treasure



The Esplanade Park may be small, but it has a lovely fountain. It's amazing I only noticed it recently when apparently the fountain was unveiled since 1882 to commemorate Tan Kim Seng, a philanthropist who helped build Singapore waterways!

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Toa Payoh Sensory Park - part 1


I went to my friend, S', place today for a visit finally.

There is a lovely sensory park at Toa Payoh!

Lovely Lazy Saturday lunch


My sweet hubby whipped up a lovely lunch today which we enjoyed the peace and sunshine in the garden.

Thank you!

Friday, February 18, 2011

Nourishing the body and soul


There's a new eating place at OUB center called The Herbal Bar. 

I must say it's comfort food after a hard day's work!

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Beach Road

I was craving for the bak kut teh along Beach Road yesterday evening and decided to pop by for dinner and a stroll at Haji Lane. The place is typically packed with the office lunch crowd. It was surprisingly peaceful and comfortable in the evening! 

I do love those suitcases!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Dabbling with brush pens


 
I bought a set of delightful Traditional Japanese colour paint brush pens and Japanese paper from Tokyo. 

I love the colors however I found it difficult to control the ink smudging. How do artists do it??

Monday, February 14, 2011

Tokyo video


A short video of our Tokyo trip this month with my lovely friend, A. 

Weekend at St Regis


I was so lucky! 

I won a weekend stay at St Regis at my company's dinner & dance event last year. 

It is a timely Valentine's Day present.

Valentine's Day


Happy Valentine's Day!

 I decided to spend some time out in the sun during lunch break.

The pictures are taken at both ends of Cavenagh Bridge. It is the only suspension bridge and one of the oldest bridges in Singapore. This was constructed by Clutha Ironworks and P&W Maclellan, Glasgow Engineers in 1870.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

A Year of Conscious Living

It has been 5 months since I decluttered my room. I took a week off work and focused on decluttering and organizing my room. I had been living a life of routine and felt stuck in a rut and was beginning to burn out. It was awful. I was living in the mental dumps. The disorganization had drained me and it was time to do something. I had been busy with my MBA course work for the past year and a half that I neglected everything else except work. Once my final exams were over, I couldn't face my books again. However I have one more thesis to go before I complete my MBA. For me, I really need to be inspired to complete a task. I guess I'm just not that discipline a person so I really need to feel motivated.

The decluttering paved the way to start taking up yoga, meditation and the search of finding the truth of my purpose. I can't say I've found my purpose. But I do feel much better right now about life and I have started to prepare for my thesis once again. I reckoned I needed a period of time to climb out of the rut and life is starting to feel hopeful once again.

One of the things I promised myself was to live consciously. In my bid to declutter, I surfed the net for inspirations and I stumbled into the world of minimalism. The idea that less is more and by having less (materialism) you can be more than what you are now, had never crossed my mind in the past. And a life with less is actually beautiful. I was definitely consumerist and material. But it certainly hadn't brought to me much happiness. I felt weighed down by comparisons with the haves and have-nots. I put aside my dreams in pursuit of more money because I believed that there's never enough money. And yet the more I tried to climb the corporate ladder, the more I felt futile and empty. I had less time than ever to live and life is swooshing pass me everyday with no dreams and passion to fulfill. Life was indeed meaningless. Thus I decided to drop all misconceptions and ideas about life and restart my learning process on life. It is necessary to start living consciously instead of mindlessly going through the motions of life which is so easy to give in and let go of your right to live a fulfilling life.

My goal now is to get back to basics and live life with gratitude. To appreciate true living. To explore our gifts given by nature and arts. To live and love and to accept all the good and bad. To let go of the past and future. To live only in the moment. To be real and meet more real people with passion and inspirations.

Below are the links which truly inspired me during this period: